CHERMEDEL STORIES.
Since our farm had been founded in 1852 there are many stories that come to my mind. Some are stories of myself, of my kids, wife, parents, my sister and a host of others.
My roots go back to being founded a Christian family. So many incidents, life threatening situations and many other happenings have been the inspiration for this writing. Many are by the skin of the proverbial teeth. I can only say that if the Lord Jesus Christ had not had an active part in my life as well as in the lives of my parents, grandparents, great - grandparents great - great - grandparents, wife & children this farm would not still be here. I know in my own life that I would have been dead many, many times over if it were not for the miracles that had been performed in my life.
Quilting Frame
I am going to start off with a story of my mother and a neighbor lady.and a quilting frame that they would share. Now a quilting frame was four long narrow boards that were fastened together with cloth in the middle. These would take up a whole room and the neighbor ladies would sit around and hand stitch the different blocks onto the future bed linen. As they progressed they would keep wrapping the boards over and thus the quilt would be finished. This endeavor was big during the winter season.
The crux of this story is the fact that our neighbor Ione was moving the frame down to her place. Well, my mother and her put the frame through her car windows. One part was in front of Ione's neck and the other part was out the passenger window. As Ione was driving out our driveway my mother was trying to guide her.
Ione and her husband Harold were not very far from us. I would have to estimate that they were about 150-yards away. You could almost count the revolutions of the tire as she drove the car. My dad said it was like watching the Wright Bros. as they would maneuver their plane out on the runway.
My mother said, "I was signaling her to hurry up, but oh no she could not get any speed up."
Harold told us later that there was a gravel truck coming up the road and he motioned her to hurry up and turn in the yard. He figured she was going to wait for the truck to pass, which would have meant certain decapitation.
This was another place that the Lord had worked one of his miracles.
3 Miracles in One
I will never forget the birth of our youngest daughter Delta Starr. We almost lost her that early morning, as when we got to the hospital she was in extreme stress as the monitors showed. The doctors were very concerned as they were running tests and what not on Kathy as she had a very severe case of toxemia. (all toxemia is severe and life threatening) It wasn't long before there was no heartbeat according to the monitor and Kathy almost stroked out. I will never forget the look of terror on the one nurses face as her and several doctors were working on Delta's lifeless body, because she also had no respiration with no heartbeat. They managed to resuscitate her and get a heart beat. During the time they were working on her my eyes were opened to the fact of what abortion really is. I had never thought about it before; however I was changed forever.
Delta was promptly put in oxygen and Kathy was promptly administered to for her toxemia. It was getting past my milking time at home, so I went home to do chores. I gave the local veterinarian a call and told him what had transpired that morning and he told me that it was like toxemia in bovines. He asked what had happened to the cows when they had it. I told him that I had never had a cow or calf ever survive it. He figured it is about the same in the human world and that it was an infection that had no way to be treated. That no one had figured out where it come from or what triggered it. He said the only thing to do in this instance was probably prayer.
That is what I did that morning and guess what I brought Kathy and Delta both home the next morning. I cannot imagine life without any of them.
My Lord had performed 3 miracles that morning. Delta lived and Kathy lived are the first 2 miracles, and last but certainly not least was the fact that my eyes were completely opened up to what abortion really is.
Near Death in the Timber
This story goes back to when I was in my late teens or early 20's. Back in these days we had a lot of nice trees that were suitable for logs. My father would always ask me if I was going out to cut logs, which always occurred in the dead of winter. I would spend most winter afternoons cutting logs, brush, fence posts or whatever. In the morning after doing the milking and morning chores I would usually sharpen my chains on my chainsaw.
The day of our story is not too much different, except I did not have time in the morning to sharpen my saw. I ate dinner and about 12:30 P.M. I carried my saw, gas, oil and tool box that contained files, wrenches, extra chain & miscellaneous tools in it. On this early afternoon you could hear the snow crunch under your feet as you walked. That sound meant that it was very cold and this was the truth for that day as the mercury was hovering between -10 to -20 degrees below zero Fahrenheit. It never got above zero on that particular January day.
My dad wanted red oaks for logs that day. I came up to a beautiful red oak that had to go up at least 25 foot without a limb on him and the logs would be straight as an arrow. The saw started hard, which was not uncommon due to the extreme cold. I made my first cut and notched in where I figured I needed to be. There was no doubt that the saw was dull, which is a no - no in cutting any kind of wood. This is when people get hurt.
Needless to say this tree in less than a blink of an eye snapped like a rifle going off as it barber chaired up about 20 feet. It narrowly missed my head in doing that and there is no warning when they do this.
Now barber chair is an expression used by loggers and it means that before it can be cut the whole way through that the weight of the top causes the tree to fall and this great stress on the wood fibers causes it to split. So up above we have this huge split log hanging up with the top on the ground. The log is completely worthless by being split. It has the appearance of a barber chair with its complete high back. The stump is where the person sits and it has a high back with the rest of the log sitting up there. This happens a lot; however there are instances where the log splits off and falls to the ground, and usually kills or severely injures the cutter.
I cut two more red oaks that day with the same results. The last one I cut narrowly missed my chin by a quarter of an inch by my estimations.
I went back in after that last one and put my chainsaw back in the machine shed. This was about 2:30 in the afternoon. My dad wanted to know if I was done for the afternoon and I told him that I was.
When I told him what had happened he told me of the probable causes of this. He reiterated what I already knew that you can't cut with a dull saw, because oak is very susceptible to split and red oak is probably the worst and splits like walnuts do. The third point was the temperature and when the wood is froze like that it tends to split easier. The last point, that I did not know was that after you make your front cut for the direction you want the tree to fall you cut one side off first and keep cutting to the others side on your back cut. That way you don't allow the tree to have that broad area to split up on.
He suggested that I take a log chain and chain binder with me and bind the chain very tight, that would not allow the log to split up the tree. I did not try that and it was many years later before I could walk up to a walnut or oak to fell it. I had at that time lost all my nerve.
I knew on that day that my Lord was out there in the timber with me and had put his protective hand over me to shield me from death's mighty snare. I was truly blessed in having three separate miracles worked on me on that particular day. This told me that he had other plans for me yet. This goes to show you how truly blessed our family has been.
My Neighbor's
Francis Kister was my bachelor neighbor who lived with his parents Joe and Coletta. They were a great family that lived about a mile and a half down the road from me. They are all deceased now. I have nothing but fond memories of them as they were truly very good and kind neighbors. If you stopped down there you had to come in the house and have something to eat. They had lived through some of the worst times there were.
Joe and Coletta had lived with Joe's folks on the home farm. They had carved there farm literally out of the timber. They had a sawmill set up on the farm where they had home sawed all of their lumber and custom sawed for others. These were like most all others around honest, God fearing, hard working, simple folks. If you had a problem they had a problem. They would literally give you the clothes off their backs.
This particular story was the year of the famous April snow storm. I don't remember what year .it was, but it had gotten suddenly colder and the snow had started to fall on a Sunday afternoon. It continued the next day and well into the evening with very strong winds pushing it.
When it had quit all the roads were plugged and there was no way anyone could get out. Well I had talked to Francis on the phone and told him that we were out of room for milk storage. Well Francis and his dad had hauled canned milk for years.
About an hour and a half later here comes Francis up the road with his 350 diesel Farmall tractor pulling a gravity box. In front of our farmstead we have a large grove of pine trees. On the county road in front of our grove is a snowdrift that extends at least 10 feet tall. I tried to stop Francis from trying to get to our driveway, but was too late. He pulled that tractor up that grade and never spun down. The snow was packed like concrete from the wind. He got in our yard and unhooked the gravity box.
He told his dad about our predicament with having to dump milk. His dad and him loaded up this gravity box with milk cans and told Francis to bring them up to us. Frrancis told us if we needed more he could round up a lot more.
We told him we didn't need any more and that the snow would be gone before long. We thanked him and told him that we would bring the cans back as soon as we could.
He told us that there would be no big hurry.
On a Sunday afternoon my dad had me hook my D-17 Allis Chalmers tractor to the gravity box and take it back down to Joe, He also gave me a $20 bill and said I should make sure to give this to Joe and thank him very much.
I got down there with the wagon and milk cans and Joe was elated to see me. I got the $20 bill out of my pocket and tried to give this to Joe.
"No you don't!! If you make me take that money you're not my neighbor anymore. Don't ever stop in again Carl."
"But Joe, my dad told me to give this money to you. The money that we made by your milk cans was worth far more than what I am trying to give you."
"I was very glad to help you out and did not ever expect to be paid and will be insulted by pay."
We spent some more time visiting and his brother-in-law, Coletta's sister and niece drove in the yard.
I told Joe that I had probably better be getting home since he had company.
Joe told me, "No! They're not down here to see me any way."
I told Joe that I didn't want to interfere with his visiting time.
Needless to say I spent another hour and a half outside visiting with Joe. We then went in the house on Joe's insistence an played cards and ate a lunch.
This was the way everything was back then and I had the high honor of living through all of this.
I had mentioned how they had lived through some of the worst times. This was and is very true to this day. We are a spoiled society today and are liken to a spoiled brat banging and crying with our rattles. We think that we are all deserving of entitlements.
We can all take lessons from our parents and neighbors from the two preceding generations. They came home from World War II and after enduring a Great Depression before the war. The nation was united to both causes. Today everyone is wondering what can be done for us and are unwilling to put forth the effort to straighten this out. They fail to remember what JFK had said, "Ask not what your country can do for you, but rather ask what you can do for your country."
Francis parents both lived through the Great Depression, and that is what gave their being integrity, perseverance and total loyalty. I will continue with stories of them and other neighbors and friends at a later date.
Memorial Day
I can remember this incident as if it was yesterday and it is as if I have night crawlers crawling around in my spine. I was between 16 or 18 years old. My parents were up town for the Memorial Day parade and I was cutting hay.
This was a memorial day when I was in our back field cutting hay with a New Idea trailer type mower. I had my 400 case tractor on the mower. I broke the sickle cutting in pocket gopher mounds.
I took the sickle out and drove around the road,, which was a little over 2 miles. I had a new sickle at home.
I put the new sickle on the frame of the tractor and the other end was balanced between the operator's seat and the fender. (For those.who don't know, a sickle is a series of serrated blades that are razor sharp.) This sickle was mere inches from my leg.
I started up the dusty gravel road and when I came to the second curve in the road, which is quite severe to the left my tractor started to bounce from the washboard left in the road.
Needless to say the front of the sickle fell down to the road surface and the whole sickle flew past my body like a rocket.
It bent the sickle like a U bolt, but once again my Lord had sought to spare my life. He must have other plans for me.
A Tribute to a Man
By
Carl Stickfort
He may have been a leader of a foreign country, or he may have been foreign dignitary but he was neither; he was my neighbor. He taught young people how to live, he taught them respect for their elders or for their neighbors. He taught them how to drop everything they were doing to help someone else. He was like the men in Second hand Lion with his man speech. This is what the country needs now, men teaching young men how to live. I grew up with these kinds of kings in my corner. They may think I’m talking about them, but I’m talking about a conglomeration of men they do not fit one personality but they fit a multiple personalities.
We no longer have this type of leadership available in America. This take charge state of America is no longer a part of the American fiber. This neighbor seen the need and he filled it, whether it was to take the youth hunting or fishing, or spending quality time with them. He donated time where time was required and he made his little part of the world a little better place to live in.
I was fortunate enough to have known men like this for these were my neighbors. Some of these men have been gone for many years, and some have recently passed on to the great divide. They all had one thing in common, they always taught these boys to never take the easier way out of a situation. Many of the situations they got into would have meant to destroy life. These great men taught these boys to man up, and take their own responsibility in anything they did. Because these were my neighbors and friends, they were part of the Red, White and Blue, the colors that would never run. For I’ve known these men all my life and they were totally not like the leaders of today—whose main mission was to cut and run.
When a man gave you his name of honor, you could take that to the bank. They were the type of people that kept their promises no matter how hard it was for them. They were the kind of people that would give you the shirt off of their backs if you needed it and be glad to do it. They never ask how much help you needed; they were always there never expecting or wanting payment in return. If you ever offered payment, most of them were greatly offended. They were trustworthy, honest, men of true virtue and have been greatly missed through the ages. No man has ever or will ever fill these great men’s shoes, they were kings among men; pillars of the community. He was MY neighbor.